Who we are
'First Wednesday' is a support and social group for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) asylum seekers in the Manchester area.
We take our name from our pattern of meeting in the afternoon of the first Wednesday of each month.
We meet in Manchester city centre at the offices of the LGBT Foundation, close to Piccadilly station and only a short walk from the bus and Metrolink stops in Piccadilly Gardens.
As most of our members live in the surrounding Boroughs of Greater Manchester, we have found that a public transport journey into the city centre is usually the most direct, easily accessible, and least costly option for attending our sessions.
What we do
At our meetings we discuss topics of interest to LGBT asylum seekers, share information and experiences, and try to create a supportive atmosphere where people can be themselves. In our social time we enjoy ourselves, relax, and try to get to know each other better.
These take place in alternate months and normally consist of presentations by facilitators and guest speakers on specific issues, important updates, and information resources of relevance to the asylum process as it affects LGBT people. In order to manage the high attendances which we normally have at these meetings, the following pattern of timings is normally followed:
- 3.30pm - access to room and refreshments
- 4pm - start of session
- 5.30pm - social time, refreshments and networking
These alternate with the Full Meetings and offer a less formal opportunity to enjoy social time together, meet friends, make new acquaintances, share experiences, catch up with news, chat with facilitators, seek information, receive signposting to useful resources, and connect with other events and services being offered by the programme teams in the LGBT Foundation.
The formal timings of the Full Meetings do not apply to the Drop-In sessions and guests are welcome to come and go at any time, and stay as long as they wish, within our normal time slot of 3.30pm to 6.15pm.
Why we exist
There are many LGBT groups in Manchester, but often these don't understand the unique problems that asylum seekers face. Equally, there are many asylum groups in the city, but often these don't understand the issues that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people have.
We are a friendly group which understands the pressures that you face and we try and help with those pressures through friendship, support, shared experiences, and practical help where we can.
Please note: we are not immigration advisers. Our support work is limited to signposting, incuding directing individuals in need of immigration advice to a regulated adviser, and the provision of general information and resources on the immigration and asylum systems.
- Where? - The LGBT Foundation, Number 5, Richmond Street, Manchester M1 3HF.
- When? - The first Wednesday of the month, 3.30pm to 6.15pm.
- Who? - Philip, Pam, Sue and Andy - contact details below.
Respect ourselves and each other
- Keep to time.
- Treat others as we wish to be treated.
- Listen to and pay attention to each other.
Be realistic about what we can afford and who we are
- We will provide travel expenses for the Full Meetings which take place in alternate months. We will try to cover, or to make a contribution towards, the cheapest possible travel ticket for asylum seekers only. We can't provide travel expenses for the drop-in sessions.
- We can't provide alcohol or food or direct grants of money to people.
- We recognize that this is a group for asylum seekers. The facilitators attend to administer the meetings but not to lead or determine the direction of the group. Non asylum seekers who come along do so in order to support asylum seekers where appropriate.
- We want to create an atmosphere of trust and so we don't repeat outside the group things we hear in the group.